We all know someone who, knows someone, who is in this "relationship" with a real choice fella. Well what if the guy (or girl) comes with some real baggage? When do you tell yourself, enough with this! Or do you tell yourself that? If you truly care about someone, don't you stick it out? If say the person had a traumatic experience as a youth, but never really dealt with it...sorta lives like a child still and you can tell they are hurting but never really admits it. Is it a sign to just run away or do you stand by the and try to chip away at the stone around them, protecting them? I like to crack a case so for me, breaking in would be the answer. Who knows, we are put here for a reason and maybe your purpose is to save them.
For the past several years, I have worked in the beauty industry, so I have met a lot of women. I love women. I love women with issues even more! I had my blog on the other website but due to monthly postings that I just couldn't keep up with ... I am back to my original. Women with issues, fuel my brain with ideas to type about, so ladies... Thank you!
Anyways back to that matching Louie luggage of a guy ... People stay with men that are abusive, verbally and physically. Emotional abuse like stonewalling, is a terrible form. Stonewalling is when you ignore your mate, no emotional connection with, in the end, will just murder that partnership. I am a slight stonewaller. When I get mad, I ignore completely, something I am working on but, I digress. What if you were sent to that person to help the, sort out their past pain and help the, find their way? I believe you should try, try to dig deep and if it doesn't work, know you have it your all. Something is keeping you in contact. Remember that.
Now, do not judge my grammar, spelling errors, typos and shit... I am typing a blog for the first time on my iPad and never have I claimed to be a stellar words man.
Xoxo
Hitch
